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Twitter Calls Pastor John Gray “Offset in a Pulpit” After His Public Apology to Wife for Cheating on Her Again

November 10, 2020
GOT Staff
Pastor John Gray has finally issued a public apology to his wife Aventer Gray following his most recent cheating scandal … and Twitter users are pointing out the similarities between him and Migos rapper Offset (who stays cheating on his wife Cardi B). Pastor Gray took to Instagram Friday to “honor” his wife of over 10 years, and in his post, he denies sleeping with another woman, but does admit to being “emotionally unfaithful.” “A few months ago I sat down from leading at Relentless. My life wasn’t in order. Church isn’t first. My wife is. This is my wife. She is from God. She is a life giver. She is a kingdom builder. Her name is Aventer,” Gray captioned his lengthy IG post. Gray—who is the pastor of Relentless Church in Greenville, South Carolina—has been accused of cheating on his wife multiple times, with the first accusations dating back to 2018. He even bought her a $200K Lamborghini to put a stop to an impending divorce. Speaking in an interview on The Real in March 2019, Pastor Gray said his affair was an emotional one, and not a physical one. He claimed that when he and his were having problems within their marriage, he was confiding in someone other than a counselor or pastoral leader, which he admitted was totally wrong. However, despite Gray’s insistence that he didn’t physically cheat on his wife (i.e. have sex with another woman), speculation remains that his affair was, indeed, more than just emotional. “I never knew what consistent discipline, planning, leadership, manhood, or personal holiness in action from a man’s standpoint looked like. Living a shadow life, God was unwilling to let me die assuming I was whole. I failed to uphold the holy standard of God in my marriage,” shared in his IG post. “And I’m sorry. Although you are the only woman I’ve ever slept with, emotional unfaithfulness is just as wrong. Sin is sin. People want to minimize one sin over another, when it all can get you sent to hell… “My wife deserves better. The pain I caused her is immeasurable. Seeing her name in blogs because of things I did broke my soul. So since I was the cause of public embarrassment, let me be JUST AS LOUD ABOUT PUBLIC HONOR.”

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A few months ago I sat down from leading at Relentless. My life wasn’t in order. Church isn’t first. My wife is. This is my wife. She is from God. She is a life giver. She is a kingdom builder. Her name is Aventer. I met her at church. She was worshipping God through dance. Over time, she allowed me in her life and let me dance with her. She took my ring and said yes and we began our forever journey. What my dance partner didn’t know was that I was very much unfinished. I never knew what consistent discipline, planning, leadership, manhood, or personal holiness in action from a man’s standpoint looked like. Living a shadow life, God was unwilling to let me die assuming I was whole. I failed to uphold the holy standard of God in my marriage. And I’m sorry. Although you are the only woman I’ve ever slept with, emotional unfaithfulness is just as wrong. Sin is sin. People want to minimize one sin over another, when it all can get you sent to hell. My marriage forced me to face both of me. Flesh versus spirit. It is every man’s battle. Loving God isn’t enough. Preaching Jesus isn’t enough. Face yourself. Get delivered. Or hurt the ones who actually love you the most. I started intense counseling (personal and for my marriage) in the summer. Scariest thing ever. Most necessary thing ever. I had no one to blame. My life is my responsibility. Admit your wrong. God deserves better. My wife deserves better. The pain I caused her is immeasurable. Seeing her name in blogs because of things I did broke my soul. So since I was the cause of public embarrassment, let me be JUST AS LOUD ABOUT PUBLIC HONOR. Aventer you are a miracle to me. I am sorry for the pain I have caused you. You name should have NEVER come up in any conversation in any negative way with anyone ever. I must do the work to earn your trust. I’ve lived a life I’m not proud of in so many areas, but before I die, I will be the man God intended and the husband that Your heart can rest with. I’ll be the father my kids can be proud of. I’ll be the pastor Relentless can stand behind. I’m in the process and I will stay in it. May the man I am becoming match the vision God showed you. I love you.

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Pastor Gray’s public apology to his comes just two months after video footage was released of him allegedly on a phone call with his side piece Mary. The clip shows Gray trashing his wife Aventer for not cooking and saying that their son (who was also shown in the clip sitting in the backseat of the car and agreed that his mother doesn’t cook) has to eat frozen pizzas instead. Another clip appeared to show Pastor Gray telling Mary to grab her “favorite two-piece” swimsuit and her mask for a surprise trip to Cabo while also showing off video of a private jet. “You got an hour to get ready,” he told her in the clip. Meanwhile, Twitter isn’t here for Gray’s apology and are having a field day over the news, with some people calling him the Offset of preachers and others wondering how he has the time to be a full-time pastor and a part-time cheater. “John Gray is just Offset in a Pulpit,” wrote one Twitter. “When does John Gray actually have time to be a pastor?! He’s always announcing an affair,” another said. Peep the hilarious responses below: Twitter Calls Pastor John Gray “Offset in a Pulpit” After His Public Apology to Wife for Cheating on Her Again is a post from: Gossip On This - Pop Culture, News & Videos

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